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			<title>Transforming Judgment Through Unconditional Love</title>
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<p>Embracing unconditional love involves recognizing the capacity for both positive and negative beliefs. By cultivating awareness and making conscious choices, individuals can shift from automatic judgment to a more accepting perspective, ultimately leading to personal growth and a more fulfilling life. This transformative process requires continuous practice and commitment to self-awareness.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 00:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Advice from a Future Self for Current Challenges</title>
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<p>This article explores how to gain perspective on current challenges by imagining advice from a future version of oneself. It offers unique insights based on common sayings about feeling stuck or lost. By reflecting on these sayings and considering advice from a wiser self, individuals can find clarity and direction to overcome obstacles.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2026 00:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Enhancing Happiness and Resilience Through Mindful Eating</title>
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<p>Exploring the connection between mindful eating and emotional well-being reveals that our unique responses to food can significantly enhance happiness and resilience. By honing our five senses, understanding our stress responses, and adopting personalized strategies, individuals can cultivate a more fulfilling relationship with food and improve overall wellness.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2026 00:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Unlocking Happiness Through Kindness</title>
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<p>Discover how embracing kindness can transform personal happiness and foster a more compassionate world. This article explores the profound realization that true joy stems from within and the life-changing power of kindness as a guiding principle for personal and spiritual growth.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>The Healing Power of Essential Oils and Mindfulness</title>
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<p>Essential oils and mindfulness practices have long been recognized for their ability to enhance well-being and manage stress. This article delves into the author's journey with these tools, highlighting their psycho-emotional benefits and practical applications in everyday life. Discover how these elements can support personal growth and resilience through life's challenges.</p>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 00:01:49 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Understanding Resistance and Acceptance in Life</title>
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<p>Resistance to unwanted situations often leads to increased emotional distress and suffering. Recognizing the role of acceptance, rather than approval, can transform one's approach to challenges. By observing resistance and allowing reality to be, individuals can cultivate a more peaceful and productive mindset, ultimately leading to effective change.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2025 00:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Overcoming Excessive Worry for Personal Growth</title>
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<p>Excessive worry can stifle personal growth and hinder relationships by fostering negativity and fear. By understanding the nature of worry and its effects on kindness and generosity, individuals can adopt constructive strategies to confront their fears, enhancing their well-being and encouraging a supportive environment. This shift can lead to a more positive outlook on life.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2025 00:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Embracing Natural Living for Inner Peace</title>
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<p>Many individuals struggle with dissatisfaction in their lives, feeling trapped in unfulfilling jobs and relationships. This article explores how reconnecting with the inner self and embracing natural values can lead to greater peace and fulfillment. It highlights the importance of genuine connections and the courage to express true feelings.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Transforming Self-Doubt Through Criticism Reflection</title>
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<p>Criticism can trigger self-doubt and reveal hidden beliefs about self-worth. By examining reactions to negative comments, individuals can identify and uproot limiting beliefs that affect their self-acceptance and relationships. This process fosters personal growth and emotional intelligence, enabling a more positive self-view and healthier interactions with others.</p>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2025 00:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Navigating Chaos: Strategies for Inner Peace</title>
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<p>In times of turbulence, finding stability can feel daunting. This article explores the chaotic energies impacting our lives and offers practical strategies for navigating personal upheaval. From letting go of unhealthy attachments to embracing relationships as teachers, discover methods to reclaim joy and balance amidst the chaos.</p>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2025 07:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>The Impact of Childhood Abuse on Adults</title>
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<p>Childhood abuse often leads to deep-seated anger and various chronic health issues in survivors. Many struggle with self-blame and dissociation, which complicates their healing journey. Acknowledging the abuse and confronting the associated emotions is crucial for recovery and reclaiming a sense of self-worth.</p>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 09:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Navigating Life Transitions Through Intuition</title>
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<p>Significant life transitions often bring confusion and grief, but they also open doors for profound self-discovery. By tuning into one's inner voice and following intuitive impulses, individuals can navigate these changes and embrace new paths. This article delves into the journey of letting go and the transformative power of listening to oneself during uncertain times.</p>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2025 23:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Learning to Ask for What One Wants in Life</title>
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<p>Courage in communication is essential for getting what is needed. Reflecting on a childhood experience, the article explores the importance of speaking up and effectively expressing needs. It emphasizes that without asking, one may remain unheard and unfulfilled, encouraging individuals to develop the skills necessary to advocate for themselves.</p>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2025 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Transforming Relationships into Growth Opportunities</title>
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<p>Difficult relationships can serve as powerful catalysts for personal growth and self-discovery. By recognizing the lessons embedded in both supportive and challenging interactions, individuals can transform their experiences into opportunities for healing. Understanding these dynamics fosters deeper connections and enhances emotional resilience, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life journey.</p>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 04:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Building a New Life After Addiction</title>
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<p>Recovering from addiction requires more than just willpower; it demands a structured plan and meaningful activities to fill the void left by substance use. By scheduling daily tasks, seeking support from mentors and groups, and replacing old memories with new experiences, individuals can create a fulfilling, drug-free life.</p>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Understanding Inner Opposition and Finding Wholeness</title>
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<p>Many people struggle with feelings of inadequacy stemming from early experiences that shape their self-perception. This article explores how inner opposition develops, its impact on personal growth, and the journey back to recognizing one's true essence. By understanding and integrating these experiences, individuals can reclaim their sense of wholeness and purpose.</p>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2025 00:24:59 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Understanding Relationships as Mirrors for Growth</title>
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<p>Life's challenges often serve as mirrors, reflecting our internal struggles and guiding us toward personal growth. By recognizing how our relationships reveal our disowned selves and teaching us about balance, we can transform discomfort into valuable lessons. Embracing this perspective opens doors to deeper healing and prosperity in our lives.</p>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2025 03:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Embracing Happiness</title>
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<p>Many individuals struggle with self-sabotaging beliefs that undermine their happiness. Common thoughts like 'It's too good to be true' create barriers to joy. Recognizing and reprogramming these limiting beliefs can help individuals embrace their right to happiness, allowing them to live joyfully and harmoniously.</p>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2025 07:15:56 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Understanding the Importance of Self-Care</title>
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<p>Self-care is a vital aspect of physical and mental health, enabling individuals to nurture themselves and manage stress effectively. By focusing on personal needs and engaging in activities that promote well-being, one can enhance their overall happiness and ability to support others. This article explores the various dimensions of self-care and offers practical insights for implementation.</p>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 20 Sep 2025 16:24:59 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Mindful Practices for Enhanced Clarity and Well-Being</title>
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<p>Incorporating mindful practices like gratitude, prayer, and nature immersion into daily routines can significantly enhance personal growth and resilience. This article explores how these activities foster clarity, connection, and better decision-making, helping individuals navigate life's challenges with intention and grace.</p>]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2025 00:11:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>How to Unlock the Wisdom of Your Intelligent Heart </title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p><img src="/images/2024/633x356/01-08-talking-to-heart-8578311_640.jpg" alt="a drawing of a heart with a red rose in full bloom laying on a sheet of music" width="633" height="356" title="&lt;p&gt;xxx&lt;/p&gt; &lt;hr id=&quot;system-readmore&quot; /&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Image by &lt;a href=&quot;https://pixabay.com/users/beasternchen-32364022/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;amp;utm_content=8578311&quot;&gt;beasternchen&lt;/a&gt; from &lt;a href=&quot;https://pixabay.com//?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;amp;utm_content=8578311&quot;&gt;Pixabay&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Audio &amp;amp;&amp;nbsp;Video version of the complete article will be online within 48 hours.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;h2&gt;It's Time to Have a Conversation with Your Intelligent Heart&lt;/h2&gt; &lt;p&gt;by Marie T. Russell.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most of us have been raised to think of the brain as the ultimate ”decider” for our body and our life. After all, we’ve been told the brain is very intelligent. It can process information and come up with rational and wise decisions. It is the be all and end all. And the brain is seen as the masculine energy while the feminine energy is seen soming from the heart. But it wasn’t always this way.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In ancient times, societies were matriarchal, not patriarchal. And the matriarchal society was guided by the heart… the mother’s love “ran the show” raising the children, teaching them from the “hearth” the fundamental values of caring, sharing, cooperation, etc. The men, in these societies, went out and provided for the family. They went out to hunt to bring back food and they also provided protection from predators and aggressors.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This was the state of life. Family life and community life revolved around the women raising the children with love and teaching them the values needed to be a wise being that contributed to the whole. The women also taught respect for Nature as they went out foraging for food and knew the need to only take what was needed and leave enough for the cycle of life to continue.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;h2&gt;And then things changed…&lt;/h2&gt; &lt;p&gt;The brain started to thing more highly of itself. It started to think that it was the most important, much more imporant than the mothers and their loving hearts raising the children and providing not only initial life, but the nurturing of that life in body, mind, and spirit. However, the brain concluded that it was the most important as it provided food by hunting and protection.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The brain based its observation on a competitive perspective, not one where two ways of being were not only equal but complimentary to each other. The two energies, or perspectives, were meant to work in partnership: the brain working in tandem with the heart. Over time, however, the brain took over “running the show” relegating the wisdom of the heart to a spot of weakness and not to be taken seriously. The brain and its ego became the supreme deciders for this planet.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But research (and experience) has shown that the center of our wise decision-making process is our heart. And, relegating our heart to the back of the line and not considering its input has created serious problems in our society and our world. After all, would a good loving heart pollute the waters for the people living downstream? Would a caring heart let the neighbor’s children go hungry? Would a generous heart hoard food and goods while the rest of the village struggled? Of course not.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So, we now come full circle. It is time to return the heart to its proper place. Or rather return the brain to its proper place, as the supporter of life at the heart, or the hearth. The brain is there to help, to contribute, not to rule. The brain, while obviously important and useful, is not meant to be the final arbitrator and judge. The heart is the source of Wisdom. The brain the source of rational information.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I recently watched a video presentation by Gregg Braden, a well-known scientist and metaphysician about the encoded message in our cells and our body. (Video shared at the end of this article.) And in the video, he presents a short meditation where you ask questions of your Heart. And I capitalize the word Heart here, because we are not speaking of the physical pump that circulates blood and nutrients throughout the body. We are speaking of the energetic heart, the guiding light of our soul.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The first question that Gregg shares in his meditation provides a fundamental guide for our life. And here is a short version of the process: Put your hand on your heart center and bring your focus to it. Get quiet and calm and ask: &lt;em&gt;“My Heart, what do you need from me right now?”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When I first did this guided meditation, I immediately “heard” or felt the answer: it was Joy. What my Heart (and thus my Life) needed most from me was Joy. And as I felt the presence of Joy fill my body and my mind, I realized its importance in my Life. It provided a basic tenet from which to guide my thoughts and my actions. It was based in gratitude for the past, the present, and the future.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;At the time, I thought this was the “permanent” answer to that question. However, as I now write this article, another answer presents itself: Peace. And I realize that this is not a one time question which provides a “one size fits all answer”. The question is to be used to provide an answer based on the present moment.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;You see, my brain had jumped in and assumed (as it often does) that there was only one answer, one way to answer a question or to solve a problem. After all, that’s how it was trained in school. There was only one “right” answer: yes or no, right or wrong, this or that. The answer was the same for everyone.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yet, when we live from the Heart, we realize that there is no “one answer”. Even saying we must live from the Heart is not completely always the case. Sometimes, the brain or the rational mind is the guide. If you are climbing a rock wall, the brain may be the best one to suggest which is the safest position for your hands and your feet. Though, there as well you have another partner which is your intuition. So, one size, or one answer does not necessarily fit all.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What I discovered as I typed the question again this morning: &lt;em&gt;“My heart, what do you need from me right now?” &lt;/em&gt;was another answer. This morning, the answer is &lt;em&gt;P&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;eace&lt;/em&gt;. And now my brain is berating me for not “getting this” immediately, of not realizing that this wasn’t a question that provides one answer forever.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I now understand that the question is one that we must live with and make part of our day to day, and moment to moment, life: &lt;em&gt;My Hea&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;t&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;t, what do you need from me right now? &lt;/em&gt;And the answer will flow and change as the moments of your life and your encounters with others take place. The answer will change and can become your guiding light in your moment to moment experience.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And as I re-ask the question, after having written this article, the answer is again Joy! I am happy and joy-full to share these insights with you. I am filled with Joy at having come across this teaching myself. I am looking forward to enJOYing a day, and a life, lived with this question: &lt;em&gt;My Heart what do you need from me right now?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There are two other questions presented in Gregg’s video (see below) which bring this process to a deeper level. However, if you simply adopt this one question, you will have made a giant step in creating a life that will be fulfilling, not only for you but for those around you.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So what does your Heart need from you right now?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Video presentation by Gregg Braden: &lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://youtu.be/Evk7Nk9q5qc?si=xkJaferpgPbK5CHB&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;noopener&quot;&gt;Pure Human Divinity&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;h3&gt;Related book (and card deck):&lt;/h3&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Chakra Cards for Belief Change:&amp;nbsp;The Healing InSight Method&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by&amp;nbsp;Nikki Gresham-Record&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;images/2021/covers/1644110407.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;COVER ART FOR: Chakra Cards for Belief Change:&amp;nbsp;The Healing InSight Method by&amp;nbsp;Nikki Gresham-Record&quot; style=&quot;margin: 1px 7px 2px 0px; border: 1px solid #000000; float: left;&quot; title=&quot;Chakra Cards for Belief Change:&amp;nbsp;The Healing InSight Method by&amp;nbsp;Nikki Gresham-Record&quot; /&gt;An easy-to-use therapy tool for transforming unhelpful belief patterns and envisioning positive change:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• Identifies 28 beliefs per chakra that can be energetically realigned using the Healing InSight Method&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;• Offers a tool set of therapeutic processes, affirmations, visualization, and bodywork for the practical application of the transformational belief realignment method&lt;br /&gt;• Includes 56 full-color, high-vibration chakra images, one for each main chakra as well as 7 additional empowering images for each chakra&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1644110407/innerselfcom&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;noopener&quot;&gt;Info/Order this card deck&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://amazon.com/exec/obidos/external-search?tag=innerselfcom&amp;amp;keyword=inspirational%20card%20decks&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow noopener&quot;&gt;More Inspirational Card Decks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;<h3 align="left">About The Author</h3>
<p align="left"><img src="/images/2026/authors/russell-marie-2026.jpg" alt="russell marie 2026" width="175" height="200" style="margin: 1px 7px 1px 1px; border: 1px solid #000000; float: left;" />Marie T. Russell is the founder of <strong>InnerSelf Magazine</strong> (founded 1985). She also produced and hosted a weekly South Florida radio broadcast, Inner Power, from 1992-1995 which focused on themes such as self-esteem, personal empowerment, and well-being. Her articles focus on transformation and reconnecting with our own inner source of joy and creativity.</p>
<p><strong>Creative Commons 3.0: </strong>This article is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 4.0 License. <strong>Attribute the author</strong>: Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com. <strong>Link back to the article:</strong> This article originally appeared on <a href="/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">InnerSelf.com</a></p>&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;" /></p>
<p>Discover the transformative power of your intelligent heart. Move beyond ego-driven decisions and embrace heart-guided living for clarity, joy, and peace. Learn how asking your heart the simple question, "What do you need from me right now?" can bring profound fulfillment and transform your relationships. Join Marie T. Russell as she shares insights inspired by Gregg Braden’s teachings and her own journey to heart-centered wisdom.</p>
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