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Resisting, Repressing, and Ignoring Unpleasant Emotions Doesn’t Work

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Written by: Barbara Berger

Resisting, Repressing and Ignoring Unpleasant Emotions Doesn’t WorkLife teaches us that we cannot be released from powerful, stressful emotions by resisting, ignoring, or repressing them – no matter how hard we try. In fact, life teaches us just the opposite. We learn from experience that resisting, repressing and ignoring unpleasant emotions just tend to make things worse.

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Reflections Before Good-bye: The Four Things That Matter Most

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Written by: Ira Byock M.D.

Reflections Before Good-bye: The Four Things That Matter MostMahatma Mohandas Gandhi once advised, “We must become the change we want to see in the world.” Perhaps if we were each to expand forgiveness, gratitude, and love in our own lives, the collective influence of our healthy, loving relationships would reverberate across our generations and into the future.

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Changing Your Own Mind and Getting Out of Your Own Way

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Written by: Hal Mathew

Changing Your Own Mind and Getting Out of Your Own WayMost of us walk around with heads busy as beehives, aware of some thoughts as they come and go but not fully aware of the buzz of mental activity just beneath the surface. Every once in a while, it’s a good idea to stop and ask yourself, What was I thinking? 

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The Path to Smart Change Requires Patience and Persistence

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Written by: Art Markman, PhD

The Path to Smart Change Requires Patience and PersistenceI have been playing for around twelve years now, and I still take lessons. The best lessons I have are the ones in which I leave feeling like I don’t really know anything about playing at all. Dur­ing those lessons, my teacher has identified yet another weakness in my playing. I have to learn new skills to overcome those weak­nesses to get better.

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Love, Gratitude, or Trust: Which Is More Important?

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Written by: Barry Vissell

Trust Comes FirstTrust. Not trust. Trust. Not trust. The human free will tries to insert its dominion. Trust in a higher power is the most difficult thing to sustain, and the most important thing to sustain. I can’t see angels, but I trust they are there helping me every step of my journey.

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Deviant Behavior: Why It Takes Guts To Go Against The Crowd

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Written by: Clifton B. Parker, Stanford University

against the crowd 3 15“Deviant individuals can exist in almost every society, even in the most strict and ruthless ones such as Nazi Germany. These deviant group members serve as an opposition to the opinions of the majority and can also differ from the majority in their emotional experience.”

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Time to Wake Up: Matching Your Thoughts and Words With Your Actions

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Written by: Rashmi Khilnani

Time to Wake Up: Matching Your Thoughts and Words With Your ActionsMany of you have your crown chakra and third eye open and connected to very high vibrational states and yet the heart remains broken, hurt, or only conditionally opened. It is of utmost importance to have a balanced opening and clearing of all your chakras. The more efficiently you heal your unresolved aspects of self...

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Betrayal and the Gift of Forgiveness

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

Betrayal and the Gift of ForgivenessHave you ever been lied to or betrayed by someone you loved and trusted? Has anyone not believed you when you were telling the truth? Has anyone you loved walked away from the relationship and refused to try to work out the differences? Everyone has been hurt by someone else. How do we get rid of the hurt and move on with our lives. How can we forgive?

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Creating a New Dream of Life Guided by the Truth of Our Emotions

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Written by: Ray Dodd

Creating a New Dream of Life Guided by the Truth of Our EmotionsIn order to change any of the beliefs that are holding you back from creating the life you want, it’s important to understand how they were formed and what got you to this point. For many years behavioral scientists have studied human infants to determine what their experience is and how they develop.

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Diving into Our Fears and Overcoming Them

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Written by: Nora Caron

Diving into Our Fears and Overcoming ThemMy first spiritual teacher told me a phrase that echoed in my head for months; “You don’t know what love is because you’re stuck in your fears. Face your fears and you will begin to know what love feels like.” I sat with these words, realizing how many fears controlled my life and my happiness. I had never realized how afraid I was deep inside...

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How to Get Out of a Coma & Be the Director of Your Life

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Written by: Alan Cohen

How to Get Out of a Coma & Be the Director of Your Own LifeIn the Book of Genesis we are told that “a deep sleep fell over Adam,” but nowhere in the Bible does it say that he woke up. We are all Adam, still immersed in the dream of limitation. We have become sleepwalkers, trudging through our days wondering who we are and why we are here.

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Surrendering to the Fires of Change in Your Life

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Written by: Susan L. Westbrook, PhD.

Surrendering to the Fires of Change in Our LifeThe concept of surrender is often confused with submission. No matter how you define it, or under what conditions, surrender is a willful, not a passive act. The element of choice in surrender is an important consideration when we are discussing its expression in our lives.

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The Attitude of Service: How To Brighten Up the World

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Written by: Pam Grout

The Attitude of Service: How To Brighten Up the WorldDespite what Madison Avenue would like us to believe, that vacation to the Riviera, that Chrysler PT Cruiser, that anti-aging cream is not the secret to happiness. There's only one thing that unlocks the door to true peace of mind. Serving a purpose bigger than...

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Appreciation and Being of Service Contribute To Evolutionary Shift

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Written by: Marlise Karlin

Appreciation & Being of Service Contribute To An Evolutionary ShiftWhen we recognize the impact we have, purely by being responsible for our state of mind – and how that affects the electromagnetic field that surrounds us, we realize that every moment sets in motion an incremental modification of such import that its trajectory could create a global shift in consciousness.

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It Only Takes a Few Seconds to Be Kind

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

It Only Takes a Few Seconds to be Kind

In 1993, Conari Press published a book called Random Acts of Kindness. This book started a movement of people looking for ways to be kind to complete strangers. It was not at all unusual to see a bumper sticker on the car in front of you that read, “Practice Random Acts of Kindness.”

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Purplewashing: Denying or Repressing Uncomfortable Emotions

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Written by: Eileen Day McKusick

Purplewashing:  Repressing Or Denying Uncomfortable EmotionsPurplewashing  is a term I have coined to describe the tendency people have to gloss over, repress, or deny uncomfortable emotions, usually by “spiritualizing” the situation or by “being nice” about it. I call it purplewashing because it is similar to...

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Why Black Friday Leads Shoppers To Behave Badly

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Written by: Jaeha Lee, North Dakota State University

Why Black Friday Leads Shoppers To Behave Badly

The manic nature of Black Friday has often led shoppers to engage in fistfights and other misbehavior in their desperation to snatch up the last ultra-discounted television, computer or pair of pants.

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Feeling Anxious Makes It Harder To Stop Feeling Anxious

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Written by: Adam Heenan, Queens University, Ontario

Feeling Anxious Makes It Harder To Stop Feeling Anxious

Anxious people tend to perceive their world in a more threatening way. That is, the more anxious a person is, the more likely they are to notice threatening things around them. This is called the threat bias.

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Healing Is Feeling: Becoming Whole and Complete

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Written by: Rashmi Khilnani

Healing Is Feeling: Becoming Whole and CompleteAll creation either evolves or devolves. You are once again in a cycle of the waking up of consciousness. Therefore it is time to move forward, in love and trust. Come out of your minds and heads into the realm of your heartfelt states of being. In other words...

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It Is Not A Problem Until You Think It Is

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Written by: Sandy C. Newbigging

It Is Not A Problem Until You Think It Is

One person loses their job and experiences stress, fear and anxiety. Another person loses their job and is excited about the new possibilities opening up for them. What’s the difference? The external life circumstance is the same. However the internal response is different.

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What To Do When Fear Has Hold of You

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Written by: Jan Frazier

What To Do When Fear Has Hold of YouThe phenomenon of fear is surely one of the most impressive proofs of the mind’s power to convince us of the reality of its contents. If a person could reduce all possible episodes of fear down to those threats that are imminent, life would be very much less a scary place.

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